Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Conflict Resolution

Sometimes it can be good to step away.  Avoiding conflict can sometimes be the best solution.  But if the conflict has a chance of erupting and causing a larger amount of strife, perhaps it would be prudent to diffuse the emotional incendiary device.  This is a problem that good referees deal with and bad ones ignore most of the time.  And it doesn't apply to just referees.  It is helpful in a broad amount of situations as well.  There are many ways to take care of potentially harmful situations, some that work better than others, depending on the circumstances.  Communication is one of the most important skills to learn for success in life.  At least it should be, since what is life without others?

~another musing of the ill-informed~

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Time to get back on this

Alright so I haven't posted here in a while.  But I really feel like I should start again.  So here goes.

I know I'm not always right.  I feel like the title of this blog should reflect that.  Not knowing everything is fine.  Admitting this is even better.  To be humbled is to gain enlightenment.  At least I think it should be.  So there should be no reason to get offended if someone tells you that you are doing something wrong.  Yet there is sometimes.  This is most likely due to the way we are told that we are in error.  We are so darn sensitive that we can't let others improve us.  Or possibly undo us.  Since people are not always right.  So their information might be wrong.

So I guess we can just all be flawed together?  Such is life.

~another musing of the ill-informed~